Dealing with people you don’t like has got to be one of life’s biggest hurdles. Having them as neighbors or as coworkers can turn a person’s life into a living hell. I don’t care what “self- help” gurus say, we are human and there is Only so Much One Can Take. I’ve been in situations like this and ignoring it or “dealing” with it can take its toll. The best thing to do is to set limits from the start if you see things are going in that direction. Setting limits and keeping distance is the BEST solution before things get out of hand. I had to learn this the hard way. If anyone is going through something like this and unfortunately things have gotten out of control, all I can say is I feel you and my advice is to WALK AWAY! People like this are not WORTH IT!