I consider myself a realist, I’m not a pollyanna and I’m not a constant downer but there are some people who literally drain the energy out of others. Having clinical Depression DOES NOT give a person the right to treat others with disrespect and pour their misery onto others. I have seen people like this in my own family. I understand living with depression is not easy, nonetheless, that does not give the person permission to aggravate others and use their condition as an excuse. If you are dissatisfied with your life, if you blame others for what has happened that is NO ONE’S fault. To this person I’d say take responsibility for your own choices and STOP blaming others for the past. I’ve had ENOUGH of people who are overwhelmingly negative and dumped their BS onto others. I don’t want people like that ANY LONGER in my life and I will do my Darndest to Avoid them. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!